Shirley Jennett, a retired nurse, loves her spacious ranch-style house in Denver, with its big backyard and gazebo.<\/p>\n
\u201cI want to stay here,\u201d she vowed. \u201cAnd die here.\u201d<\/p>\n
She might pull that off. In relatively good health, Jennett still drives to lunch with friends, does her own housekeeping and grocery shopping, and plows through a book a day, usually a mystery. But her children worry about her living alone at 89, especially after she has had a couple of falls.<\/p>\n
Enter her new housemate, Susan Beese. Despite working four days a week in retail, Beese could no longer afford her nearby one-bedroom apartment as the rent topped $1,500 a month. She moved out, first staying with friends and then in what she delicately called \u201ca senior women\u2019s facility.\u201d<\/p>\n
Now Beese, who is 79, pays Jennett $800 monthly for a bright two-bedroom space, with a bath and a kitchen, on the lower level of her house. As part of the agreement the housemates worked out, she helps plant and water Jennett\u2019s garden, takes out the trash, and cooks occasional meals.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s been a lifesaver,\u201d Beese said. Jennett even welcomed her dog.<\/p>\n
Meet the real-life Golden Girls. In the\u00a0much-loved<\/a>\u00a01980s sitcom, still in perpetual reruns, the four wisecracking women who share a house in Miami met through an ad on a supermarket bulletin board.<\/p>\n In Denver, the housing matchmaker was Sunshine Home Share Colorado, a local nonprofit that Alison Joucovsky, a senior services administrator, founded in 2016 when the problem became urgent. \u201cMy phone was ringing off the hook,\u201d she said, recalling anxious pleas from older residents spending most of their Social Security checks on rising rent or facing years-long waiting lists for subsidized senior housing.<\/p>\n Home sharing \u201cis a really efficient way to create affordable housing and to support older people\u00a0who want to age in place<\/a>,\u201d Joucovsky said. Carefully vetting both \u201chome providers,\u201d who may be rattling around in family houses now too big and too empty, and \u201chome sharers\u201d seeking reasonable rents, Sunshine facilitated 31 shares last year, a record for the nonprofit.<\/p>\n \u201cThe cost of developing and building new housing is astronomical, and so is the length of time it takes,\u201d said Laura Fanucchi, president of the National Shared Housing Resource Center and an administrator with HIP Housing, a home-share organization in San Mateo County, California. \u201cWhy not make use of existing housing stock?\u201d<\/p>\n About\u00a055 organizations around the country<\/a>\u00a0offer these services \u2014 and demand is growing, driven by housing shortages, rising rents, and sales prices that affect both the old and the young. Legislators in several states are working to promote home sharing as an option. (Personal care is not part of these arrangements.)<\/p>\n The need is acute. About a third of households headed by someone 65 or older were \u201ccost-burdened\u201d in 2024, according to\u00a0an analysis<\/a>\u00a0by the Harvard Joint Center for Housing Studies. That means they spent more than 30% of their income on housing.<\/p>\n Although nearly 80% of those people were homeowners, the center found, an increasing proportion are still paying off mortgages or home equity loans, and most contend with higher taxes, utility and maintenance costs, and insurance premiums.<\/p>\n \u201cA lot of the people calling me to complain about property taxes and inflation are senior citizens on fixed incomes whose children have left, and maybe their spouse has died,\u201d said Pennsylvania state Rep. Abby Major, a Republican co-sponsor of a bill that would facilitate home sharing. \u201cThey\u2019re a single older adult living in a four-bedroom house.\u201d<\/p>\n Yet most don\u2019t want to relocate. Even if they do, many older adults will find that downsizing has also\u00a0become prohibitively expensive<\/a> as home prices rise and very low interest rates become a memory.<\/p>\n Younger people are similarly cost-burdened, including 37% of those age 25 to 34 and 31% of those 35 to 44, the Joint Center has reported.\u00a0Home sharing can benefit<\/a>\u00a0both older homeowners who need income and people of any age in search of lower-cost housing.<\/p>\n To help increase their reach, some home-share programs now supplement or replace the traditionally labor-intensive matching process with online platforms. (For-profit companies like Nesterly or roommates.com also facilitate shared housing.)<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s like online dating, except that people who have rooms can meet people who need rooms,\u201d said Candice Smith, executive director of HomeShare Oregon. \u201cAnd it\u2019s a lot more secure.\u201d HomeShare\u2019s online platform has drawn close to 7,000 providers and seekers over five years.<\/p>\n Further support has come from the city of Portland, which this year announced\u00a0a pilot program<\/a>\u00a0to pay $1,000 to homeowners who make a spare room available (or $1,500 for two rooms) through qualified home-share programs.<\/p>\n In addition, legislators in several states have introduced or passed bills that prohibit municipalities from unduly restricting homeowners who want to rent spare rooms to nonfamily members. Sponsors in Pennsylvania and Connecticut actually call them Golden Girls bills, and they\u2019ve drawn bipartisan support.<\/p>\n \u201cSo many young people have basically given up on buying a home,\u201d said Colorado state Rep. Manny Rutinel. The Democrat helped pass\u00a0a 2024 law<\/a>\u00a0prohibiting cities and counties from limiting the number of unrelated people who could live together in a single dwelling.<\/p>\n In Pennsylvania, state Rep. Tarik Khan steered\u00a0a si<\/a>m<\/a>ilar bill<\/a>\u00a0through the House in June; it awaits a Senate vote. \u201cIt doesn\u2019t make sense that your cousin can move in but someone unrelated to you can\u2019t,\u201d said Khan, a Democrat.<\/p>\n The Pennsylvania bill caps the number of nonfamily occupants in a home at five; Connecticut\u2019s limit would be three.\u00a0That bill<\/a>\u00a0passed the Senate in April and then died without a vote in the House. But the bill sponsors plan to reintroduce it next session.<\/p>\n Home sharing can\u2019t solve the housing crisis, its fans acknowledge. But it could make a dent, potentially unlocking thousands of spare bedrooms across the country without requiring new construction that would change the character of neighborhoods.<\/p>\n Admittedly, matching homeowners with those who want to rent a room becomes a delicate process. Home-share staff members typically interview the individual parties, run background checks, verify incomes, coordinate initial phone calls and meetings, and mediate if problems later arise.<\/p>\n They also help applicants sift through the myriad lifestyle preferences that can torpedo a match. \u201cLiving together isn\u2019t easy,\u201d Fanucchi said. Will the home provider accept smokers, pets, visitors? Does the sharer work from home? Or need to park a car? Who sets the thermostat?<\/p>\n Sometimes the agreement includes a \u201cservice exchange,\u201d in which the newcomer does a few hours of chores like snow shoveling, shopping, or some meal preparation in return for reduced rent.<\/p>\n Jenlyn and Larry Boyer, for instance, have lived in their ranch house in suburban Broomfield, Colorado, for 31 years and never want to leave. But Jenlyn, who is 80, has \u201cgotten unsteady\u201d and uses a walker. Her husband, 70, suffers chronic fibromyalgia pain and needs a wheelchair.<\/p>\n Because they now pay for tasks that they used to undertake themselves, and because inflation has undermined their finances, \u201cI had an epiphany,\u201d Jenlyn said. \u201cWe need more help and we need more money.\u201d<\/p>\n Six months ago, through Sunshine Home Share, they met a 46-year-old graduate student whose monthly rent had doubled to an unmanageable $2,000.<\/p>\n The student moved into their furnished downstairs bedroom\/family room with a bathroom, a small refrigerator, and a microwave. In exchange for about 10 hours of dishwashing a month, she pays a reduced rent of $600.<\/p>\n The additional income has helped the Boyers cover expenses like van repairs and wheelchair batteries. But they also enjoy chatting with their new housemate.<\/p>\n \u201cShe turns out to be just a gem,\u201d Jenlyn said. \u201cWe laugh together a lot.\u201d<\/p>\n The New Old Age is produced through a partnership with\u00a0<\/em>The New York Times<\/em><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n KFF Health News<\/a> is a national newsroom that produces in-depth journalism about health issues and is one of the core operating programs at KFF\u2014an independent source of health policy research, polling, and journalism. Learn more about KFF<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n This article<\/a> first appeared on KFF Health News<\/a> and is republished here under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivatives 4.0 International License<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Shirley Jennett, a retired nurse, loves her spacious ranch-style house in Denver, with its big backyard and gazebo. \u201cI want to stay here,\u201d she vowed. \u201cAnd die here.\u201d She might pull that off. 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